Anja is busy with her school life. Goes skating or skiing in the weekend or sleeps overnight at girlfriend's place. We had been to the parents meeting this week. Her teacher was quite careful at trying not to compare Anja to any others in the class. However, she accidently mentioned that Anja is among the group of students of the highest level, so different students have the right thing to learn at school. I was secretly happy about this. At least, I know she is doing fine at school.
There will be no exams during the whole primary school days, and I am quite happy with it. The only thing I pay attention is not to let her to lose curiosity and to make sure that she is willingly to learn new things in a happy way. I don't mind so much that she would become a happy ordinary women with an ordinary life "in the end". It seems not that difficult to get into a university here in Norway, so I am quite relaxed with this. I would be happier if she becomes a book lover and likes to travel around the world. The only thing I care is that she is a happy kid and happy young lady later on. I know people who was elite, from top university, made big money, got depression and killed himself or herself in the end, what is that for?